Community Guidelines

Consent first

In photos and in person. Ask before you touch, before you shoot, before you post. Consent given once is not consent forever, and anyone can take it back later. We honor that, every time, without asking why.

What we do not allow

• Harassment. Not in submissions, not in anything you send us, not at a night we list.
• Outing. Do not expose anyone's identity, status, kink, or private life without their say-so.
• Body shaming. In any direction, about anyone. This scene has had enough of it.
• Hate and threats. Obvious, and worth writing down anyway.

We will never rank bodies

No hot-or-not. No ratings of people. No leaderboards, no scores, no filters that sort human beings out of the room. Not as a feature, not as a growth experiment, not ever. LarGrr rates nights, never people.

Photos

• You are tagged only if you approve the tag.
• Anyone in a photo can have it taken down. One request to [email protected], no argument, and erasure is permanent when you ask for it.
• Bystanders are not the subject. We do not expose people who happened to be in the frame.

The Privacy Policy has the full detail on takedown and erasure.

Reviews are about places, not people

Say the sound was great, the door was rough, the patio was dead by eleven. That helps everyone pick a night. What you cannot do is review a person. There is no rating of individuals on LarGrr and there never will be.

Reporting a problem

Email [email protected] with what you saw and where. A human curator reads it, not a filter. Content can come down fast, and we would rather pull something quickly and talk it through after than leave it up while we deliberate.

Safety is never behind a paywall

Reporting, takedown, and every other safety tool stay free for everyone, always. We will not charge for them, gate them behind an account tier, or bury them three screens deep.

If you break these

We can remove content, decline your submissions, and end beta access. The worst of it gets dealt with first.

These will grow

This is the beta version of these guidelines. They will be updated as LarGrr grows and as the scene tells us what is missing. The date under the title tells you which version you are reading.